Not Always Peachy

bloggers have bad days too I let Johannes take this photo on my iPhone after 48 hours of no sleep, no shower, no makeup, no breaks.  Keeping it real.

If you were to look at the majority of blog and Instagram posts from around the world I bet you would see a consistent pattern of depicted happiness.  Its easy to photograph the good times, to smile and write about the funny times, the inspiring times, or those that you want to remember.  Usually the hard days are overlooked because we just want to get them over with, or because as mom’s we’re too busy tending to sick cranky children to remember to write about how crappy we actually feel.

But today is a crappy day.  Johannes is sick, again.  We don’t know what’s wrong.  In the past six weeks he has been sick three times.  High fever and nausea, a sore stomach and bad taste in his mouth, each time he’s had it the doctors dismissed it as a stomach bug.  This time the fever has been coming with a vengeance every three hours or less, and alternating fever medicine is not helping.  Yesterday his Pediatrician ran tests, blood, urine, stool and an ultrasound of his abdomen.  So now we wait for the results.  In the meantime I have to hear my son cry in pain, watch him shake and speak none sense as his delirium sets in.

I don’t sleep.  I haven’t slept.  Because before Johannes got sick Magnus had bronchitis, and then his vaccines.  When Magnus naps Johannes is awake.  When Johannes naps, his fever spikes, Magnus wakes up, or the mailman rings the door bell.  That’s what today is all about.

All this to say that we all have bad days.

Today is a bad day.  Its a day I wish I could walk out the front door and let someone else take over for a night.  Just so I can sleep.  So if you’re having a bad day, a frustrating day, a day where you want to shut the bathroom door and cry, just know we all have them.  EVERYONE has bad days.  Today is a bad day.

Its Getting Festive

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I couldn’t help myself.  I mean I suppose I could if I tried but I didn’t really.  Johannes is practicing for his school Christmas concert every day and we’ve made the shift from listening to Thomas songs in the car, to Christmas carols.  Add to this below zero temperatures and two days of snow fall and it sure feels like Christmas is here.  While Magnus napped Johannes and I decorated the house.  This is the first year where he seems genuinely excited for Christmas, Santa, cookies and parties.  I think its going to be an incredibly fun holiday season!  Best one yet!

And yes I do realize that its still November, but I couldn’t help myself.  Next on the list of Christmas decorating “to-do’s”….buy and put up the Christmas tree!  December 6th, its on my calendar.

What’s the earliest you’ll put up holiday decorations?!

Week 2 #BBK Get Fit Challenge

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Salads, this week is about salads.  But first a recap.

I was…correction, I AM so blown away by the response I got to this challenge.  I thought maybe one or two of you maximum, would want to follow along and help me on my way, but it seems I am so not alone on this journey and that in itself is inspiring me.  It also holds me accountable because I can’t just very well quit something that I said I was going to do now can I?! So how did you do?

Me?  Well to be honest I think this challenged actually made my week easier in some ways.  It helped to have the oatmeal made ahead of time, giant thank you to my husband for making a big batch on Sunday for me.  Instead of having to think about what sort of toast I wanted for breakfast and make it, I knew I had a batch of oatmeal ready to go so I could easily spoon out a bit of it, heat it up, throw cinnamon, crushed nuts, and berries with it and have that along with my giant glass of water and coffee for breakfast.  Johannes even wanted the same thing so it made breakfast a no brainer.  For next week I’m going to try my friend Julie’s recommendation and boil some eggs that I can easily mash up with avocado or even eat along side my oatmeal.

Water…I think I did ok, but not amazing.  I could do better.  I will do better.  I’m going to make sure every day that there’s a bottle of water in the car so when I’m driving the kids around I can sip as I go.

Now before I explain next week’s challenge I just want to say that the next challenge is meant to build on this week’s not replace it.  So keep drinking the water and keep making healthy breakfast choices.  I’d also love to hear how you did, what breakfast choices did you make?  any tips that can help me, and anyone else who reads this blog?

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Now…

Week 2 challenge – SALADS.  I don’t eat enough salads generally opting for the sandwich at lunch or the pasta/pizza dinner.  So for the next week the challenge is to have one salad a day.  Small or large.  As a side or as a main course.  For lunch or dinner, it’s yours and my choice (for now).  But just get some healthy greens and antioxidants in.  And if you happen to order the salad while out for a meal, ask for the dressing on the side so you can regulate what and how much you put on.  Personally I’m going to stick to vinegrettes for the dressings, and as often as possible I will make it myself.  Dressing can sometimes contain more sugar and more fat than a Big Mac…this is legit I promise.

So how does this sound?  Doable?

Here are some healthy hearty salads I pinned on Pinterest.  And also one that I made myself a while back (above), to get you inspired and started with this week’s Get Fit Challenge.

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butternut squash and barley salad w/ poached egg

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my baby has bronchitis

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It would seem that second born babies catch all the colds their siblings bring home and worse!  Now poor Magnus has bronchitis.  He’s not even three months yet.  Thankfully its a mild case, no hospitalization required and he’s eating and sleeping decently well.  But seeing his sweet smile fade just breaks my heart.

What I didn’t realize is that bronchitis is a viral infection, so usually no antibiotics are given, just lots of rest, keeping babies elevated with a humidifier on.  This article is super informative if your little one has this, or if you think your little one might.

 

Santa Babies

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I can’t believe there are only five weeks left until Christmas!  How did that happen?  Christmas?  Already???  Maybe its because I was pregnant for 80% of the year, and spent the remainder adjusting to life with two children.

Regardless, we have to print and send out our Christmas cards, and in true Klizs fashion we decided to completely extract ourselves from the annual Christmas picture and instead focused on the cutest members of our family.  Because really…who wants to see Michael and I anyways.

I remembered that the Canon Baby Moments Facebook app had a really great step by step guide to taking seasonal photos of the kids and in this case, the Santa Baby tutorial worked best even though technically Magnus is no longer a newborn.  I again used my bed as the backdrop for the pictures, mostly because it is soft and cozy but also because our master bedroom sheds the most light.

Santa hats are pretty cute on babies, so I put both boys in Santa hats and pjs.  For the photos I used my Canon SL1 and the 50mm lens instead of the 40mm the Baby Moments app suggests, but I still think the results were pretty good.  My biggest challenge is that the boys were older and awake!  It would be so much easier to take these shots with a little baby who is fast asleep.  Trying to capture both boys perfectly was a feat in itself.  But nevertheless, I made sure they were positioned just so on the bed face the light, I put my SL1 camera on “portrait mode” and took a bunch of shots and angles.  The top down didn’t work well for me simply because Magnus and Johannes were awake and squirmy.  But some of the side shots gave me a bit of a wider angle and made it easier to capture them and their silly faces.  Have you seen such a grumpy two month old baby?! sheesh!  At the end of the day the photos were not one hundred percent perfect but the Canon Baby Moments app did provide me some great tips but mostly a whole lot of inspiration.

Are you planning on taking your own photos for the holiday cards this year?

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You can also check out some of my previous photography posts here, here AND here.

This post was created in partnership with Canon.  As always a huge thank you for supporting our sponsors!

BBK Get Fit Challenge

I just had a baby, well two months ago I had a baby.  Don’t ask me how much weight I gained during the pregnancy because I don’t know.  I didn’t keep track.  I don’t own a scale, never did and never will.  What I know for sure is that I don’t fit my old clothes, I’m still rocking the maternity jeans, I feel tired and sluggish and I know I’m not eating well.  I want to be healthy.  I want to make better choices and fit back into my old jeans.

I am not a skinny person.  I never was.  I have curves.  I have hips and I’m comfortable with them.  I have stretch-marks on my stomach, sagging in places that weren’t saggy before, and I’m comfortable with those too.  I am a mom and that’s what it took to get me here.  I’m proud of all that.  But I don’t like feeling out of breath when I run up the stairs to Magnus’ room, or the fact that I can only wear stretchy pants.

With Magnus being two months old I am still recovering from the pregnancy and the c-section. I am breastfeeding and that makes me crave food all the time.  But did I need to eat a couple of kilos of Halloween chocolate?  Probably not.  Do I have to order a croissant every single time I order a coffee?  Or rely on pizza as my only go-to take out meal?  Its about the choices, I make the choice that’s easiest or the one that I crave.  I shovel food into my mouth in between school runs, laundry and diaper blow-outs.  I have very little time, I’m constantly exhausted and I am not a priority for myself.

It would be easy to keep doing what I’m doing, except that I remember how I felt when I was healthier.  When I ate better and worked out. I felt amazing, lighter, slept better.  I didn’t have stomach pain, or headaches and I was in a better mood.  I was a better mom, more patient and more playful.  I want to have “me” back.

A few weeks ago someone suggested that I create a challenge, for myself and to inspire other moms like me.  Mom’s don’t have a lot of free time, a workout and diet are sometimes impossible and definitely daunting.  So here’s what I’ve come up with:

A 4 week challenge. A challenge that focuses on one thing at a time, small changes towards feeling better and hopefully, looking better too.  From past experience  its better not to be overwhelmed by making complete lifestyle overhaul right from the get go, although ultimately that is the goal.  And for those of you, like me, who are breastfeeding, we don’t want to affect the milk supply.  So here’s how it will work.

(1) Every week on Friday I will post the new challenge here on the blog, along with how my week went, tips, and a healthy recipe for something relevant to the challenge ahead.

(2) Those of you with blogs feel free to create your own Friday post on the previous week and how things went for you, your own tips etc…  Come back here and leave a comment with your link to your blog if you so wish.

(3) Those who don’t have blogs don’t worry, you can comment or not, totally up to you.

(4) Those of you who have Instagram and want to post any pictures during the week, you can hash tag them #bbkgetfitchallenge so we can connect and see how we’re all doing.

(5) Lastly sign up to my newsletter in the sidebar.  I will send out a biweekly newsletter with the meal plans I create for my own family, along with extra recipe (s) and the usual blog post recap.  The first one goes out next week.

I know myself.  If I break this down into small chunks, I will be able to achieve my goals.  I am a mom first and foremost, I don’t have time for complicated meals or even multiple meals for that matter.  Everything I do needs to work for the whole family, myself and the boys.  My first focus is on nutrition and the exercise will follow.

So here goes!

WEEK 1 CHALLENGE

(1) More water.  I am notorious for never drinking enough water.  I will fill up on coffee, tea, juice… but water I don’t drink nearly enough, and its a KEY component to being healthier and losing the weight.  So for this week I will fill up my reusable water bottle and take it with me in the diaper bag.

(2) Healthy breakfast.  I love all things carbs…bagels, croissants, english muffins.  This week I’m going to switch the bread carbs for healthy carbs like steel cut oats with berries, greek yogurt, and eggs.  My plan is to make a large batch of oatmeal on sunday and keep it in a sealed container in the fridge.  I’ll take out small amounts for each breakfast.  And the eggs, those I’m planning on making on the go. I make them for Johannes’ breakfasts too so I should be able to make eggs for myself at the same time.  I don’t plan on cutting calories, since I don’t want to affect my milk supply for Magnus, but I plan on swapping the bad for the good.

For this week’s recipe I’m digging up an old recipe I used to make when I was working out regularly and more careful with my food intake. They’re mini quiches you can make ahead of time and refrigerate for the week in a sealable container.  Recipe found here.

the best mini quiche you will ever have

So what do you think?  What are your personal goals?

Also, here is my before picture… fully clothed but of course.

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